Stepping Into Weddings: What I’ve Learned from Second Shooting
If you’re a photographer thinking about stepping into the wedding world, let me tell you — second shooting is one of the best ways to start.
Before I ever led a wedding day on my own, I was behind the scenes, camera in hand, soaking up every detail as a second shooter. And honestly? I still love second shooting. It’s not just about assisting — it’s about learning, growing, and being part of something really special without carrying the full weight of the day.
So if you’re curious about what second shooting actually looks like (and why it’s so valuable), here’s a breakdown of my experience and a few things I’ve learned along the way.
💡 What Does a Second Shooter Actually Do?
Short answer: a lot more than you might think.
While the lead is focused on the must-have shots — like the ceremony, portraits, and family formals — the second shooter helps capture the rest of the story. That might mean:
Groom and groomsmen getting ready
Guest reactions and candids during the ceremony
Wide angles of the venue while the lead gets tighter shots
Ceremony and reception details
Helping organize family shots or adjusting lighting
Backing up the lead whenever (and however) they need
It’s a true support role, but it also allows you to flex your creative muscles and shoot from fresh, less-pressured perspectives.
🎓 What You Learn as a Second Shooter
When I started second shooting, I had no idea how much I’d absorb just by observing. Things like:
How to manage a tight wedding timeline
Communicating with couples and vendors professionally
Navigating tricky lighting situations (hello, dark churches)
How to be both assertive and calming in high-stress moments
What shots really matter — and which ones are nice to have
You also learn what gear to bring, how to stay organized, and how to carry yourself as part of a couple’s vendor team — all crucial skills that carry into your solo weddings down the line.
🧠 Mindset Matters
As a second shooter, your job isn’t to build your portfolio — it’s to support the lead and serve the couple. That might mean holding a light stand, running to grab water, or quietly capturing a magical moment they didn’t even notice.
But with the right mindset, second shooting opens doors: to new styles, new workflows, and new relationships. It’s one of the best ways to earn trust in the wedding community.
📸 Tips for Second Shooters:
Know the Lead’s Style: Ask questions ahead of time about how they shoot and what they expect from you.
Bring Backup Gear: Even if it’s not required, having a backup body, extra cards, and lenses shows you’re prepared.
Stay Aware: Anticipate what the lead might need before they ask.
Shoot Smart: Get the creative angles, but don’t overshoot or hog time during portraits.
Be Reliable & Easy to Work With: The best second shooters are professional, positive, and drama-free.
Final Thoughts
Second shooting taught me how to navigate weddings with confidence — and how to be a team player in an environment that’s fast-paced and full of emotion. If you’re hoping to break into weddings or just want to sharpen your skills, I highly recommend finding a lead you trust and asking if they need support.
It’s not just about getting experience — it’s about earning it while helping create something meaningful for a couple on one of the most important days of their lives.
Want to chat more about second shooting or looking for someone to join your next wedding?
📩 I’d love to connect — let’s shoot together!
